By Delorus Quintal
People usually think of Christmas as time for celebration and holidaying. However, the actual picture is far from it. The preparations for these celebrations usually eat up so much on your time that you are left stressed out and with no time for your self. You can however, simply prioritize things and enjoy the festive season in a much better way.
One of the best things that can be done is to determine not to do too much. Think about whom you need to buy presents for, and seriously consider your Christmas card list. There is no reason to get all of your acquaintance gifts, and if your college buddy has not sent you a Christmas card in a couple of years, that is one less card you need to write this year. A few token gifts, like chocolates or nuts, are good to have on hand and wrapped in the even of an unexpected present.
It is always a good idea to make a priority list of things that need to be done. It helps to sort out the most important from the less important things. Take care of the things that are important and if you start feeling stressed, just ignore the less important things. Do not try to get everything done.
It is better to host a casual party than a formal dinner during the Christmas time. You can still keep on your nice clothes without making it a high dinner affair. Enliven the party with perky games and lots of handy yet elegant finger foods. It is wise to have a sandwich buffet for the guest where they can build their own sandwich and leave you with no serving worries. Do remember to keep this sandwich bar stocked with readily available nice hors ‘d oeuvres.
In order to eliminate stress from the Christmas celebrations, think of having a small get-together at home, rather than traveling to different places to see relatives. You will meet everyone and not get stressed out.
Rest assured your relatives will not complain provided you are consistent in not visiting anyone on Christmas. They will not accuse you of trying to avoid them or playing favorites. Moreover, you can plan to visit relatives a couple of days after Christmas and stay for the New Year holiday. You do not have to rush through Christmas on other people’s schedule, if you have a plan of your own.
Cleaning up is one of the most stressful activities. Learn to handle it intelligently. Clean up a little at a time. Have a garbage bag handy when you open gifts. Put the paper and packaging directly into the bag. Also, throw things away as they are used, and have everyone load their dishes in the dishwasher right after dinner. Basically, take charge, and things will fall in place. These little things greatly reduce the mess that causes stress later on.
This is not to say that you can completely avoid Christmas stress, but you can certainly reduce the stress by pacing yourself and refusing to allow the Christmas season to overtake your life beyond your control.
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